new year resolutions.
these are some simple rules that i've lived & some that i aim to become.
never bottle up your feelings when it bothers you; chances are you will probably not be happy. never hide it & suffer in silence. so if you are hurting, speak up. dont blabber on and on ;unless it's some that you really cannot overlook. say the right things at the right time.
so consider before you speak, if it's something that could be easily overlooked, don't say it if it hurts. by putting yourself into someone else shoes, you might be closer to understanding why that someone did what they did.
don't harm someone on purpose just because they hurt you by accident.
so if i've hurt someone please tell me! i would not want hurt someone intentionally. (ok, actually i do, if that person hurts me on purpose. & i'm gonna change that.)
anyways, nobody should ever take someone else happiness just because they are unhappy. seriously why should anyone do that.
i'll never let anyone bring me down. been there done that (a couple of times)& it's not worth it.
often there'll will be times that what is important to you might not mean anything for other people. people are brought up differently.
so accept what you can't change & change what you can't accept.
so if you are bothered, speak up, fight for it. & if you are unhappy and then change the situation.
so if someone is not adding anything positive to your life, you might want to consider subtracting them from it.
let it go.
then you'll learn to love yourself a little more.
i've made mistakes in my life & i've let people take advantage of me and i accepted way less than i deserve.
but i've learned from my bad choices and even though there are some things i can never get back and people will never be sorry
i'll know better next time and i won't settle for anything less than i deserve.
i've really cheered up now.
& i'm embracing 2012. so where would 2012 take me?